Nate

by The Bathtub Project

 

Date of Interview: March 26, 2017

Name: Nate

Age: 36

Pronouns: He/Him

Location: Washington, DC

 

How often do you bathe or shower?

Every morning. Usually shower, I don’t bathe too often… I shower every morning.

If you were an underwater creature, which one would you be?

Umm, I don’t know the names of them… But you know when you see nature shows when they go deep underwater with cameras… Those weird florescent things, some of the species they haven’t even identified… One of those. Yeah. The ability to explore parts of the world that haven’t really been explored before. I want that.

What are you passionate about?

I’m passionate about art. Specifically music. That is probably the number one thing. I’m passionate about my job, which is strange to think about. Previously I wasn’t… I’m an archivist. I think it’s important that there is information available and accessible to people to make use of for posterity. For whatever purpose they see fit. I think that it’s something that I’ve been more and more interested in and it’s actually been way more of a political job than I had anticipated. Especially now, when there has been a lot of talk specifically about how the archives community is involved within the current political climate. Such as how archivists could use their positions to make sure that information is being documented and made accessible to individuals moving forward so that there is more transparency. And also collecting things to make sure that there is more than just one group or side represented. So that’s something of late that I’ve been more passionate about. But yeah, art and music, I could talk forever about. It’s something I’ve been doing my whole life. All of my free time is spent either making music or playing music in some capacity. It’s one of those things that I have to do.

When did you start playing music?

I started playing drums when I was maybe… 12 years old. I got a drum kit when I was 12 years old and joined my first band when I was 14. I have been in bands since that point. Like a lot of people I was forced to take piano lessons when I was younger and I think when I was in 5th grade, the school that I was in had band as a class and you could choose an instrument that you wanted to play. I ended up choosing drums because it was also a percussion instrument. It was totally irrational as to why I chose that, but I did… Yeah, there was no feeling that “I am meant to play drums,” you know, it was kind of a misplaced illogical decision. And the more I played it, the more I loved it. The more I started to play with other people in a non-school setting, that’s when it became really important to me.

What are your thoughts on relationships? Platonic, sexual and otherwise.

I, personally, if you’re asking what my thoughts and preferences are, I’ve always been in monogamous relationships and the ones I’ve been in have always been really important to me. Right now I’m not dating anybody and not in a long term relationship and I’m very much accustomed to my independence and the lifestyle that it affords me. I’m not the kind of person who wants to be around a partner 24/7. In that regard, when I’ve dated women who are also artists, who are also doing their own projects that they are passionate about, there’s been an understanding that it’s important to give each other space. I think it’s about finding that balance. But at the same time, it’s not the end all be all– being in a relationship. I’m not somebody who feels it’s the end of the world if I’m not with someone. If it happens it happens. If not, I’m content.

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